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CONVERSATION

IV. HOMILETICAL Vertues more COMMON, are such vertuous habits as are required in men of all degrees and conditions for the regu∣lating of their mutual Conversations. Not that the other Vertues before specified, are not likewise necessary to this end: but that they do not so di∣rectly and immediately tend to it as these others do which are styled HO∣MILETICAL. To which may be opposed INSOCIABLENESS, Barbarism.

These are distinguishable into such as render our Conversation; either

MATTER

TRUTH

Declarations or Assertions.

  • VERACITY, Truth.
  • LYING, Leasing, forge, fib, flam, false, perjury.
    • OVER-SAYING, Hyperbole, Boasting, Ostenta∣tion, vapor, crack, brag, vaunt, swagger, •o∣domontade.
    • VNDER-SAYING, Detraction, Diminution, disparage, traduce, depreciate.

Obligations or Promises.

  • FIDELITY, trusty, true, loyal.
  • VNFAITH∣FVLNESS.
    • OFFICIOVSNESS, Fawning.
    • TREACHERY, perfidious, false, faithless, unfaithful, untrusty, disloyal, Recreant, Traitor, Ambodex•er, betray, falter, undermine, prevaricate.
PEACE
  • PEACEABLENESS, Quietness, Concord Accord▪ Agreement, Vni∣on, appease, atone, pacifie, reconcile, compose, take up, compromize, still, calm, set at peace, part a fray.
  • VNPEACEA∣BLENESS.
    • TAMENESS.
    • CONTENTIOVSNESS, Strife, Dissension, Discord, Variance, Controversie, Difference, Broils, Contest, Combustion, Debate, Division, Bickering, litigious, quarrel, wrangle, clash, jarr, brabble, jangle, Gar∣boil, Odds, Brangling, Conflict, Squabble, Brawling, Cavilling, captious, Incendiary, Barreter, Bonte∣few, Shrew, Scold.

MANNER

THINGS
  • Saying what is fit to be said.
    • FRANKNESS, Freeness, plain, open-hearted.
      • TOO MVCH OPENNESS, Tell-tale, Blab,
      • RESERVEDNESS, shy, nice, coy, demure, staunch, wary, close.
  • Concealing what is fit to be concealed.
    • TACITURNITY, staunch, close, still, counsel-keeping, secrecy, silence.
    • LOQVACITY, Babbling, Garrulity, talkative, babble, blab, chat∣ter, gabbling, tattle, prate-ttle.
PERSON

Persons; in observing a just Decorum.

  • GRAVITY, Seriousness, sober, demure, sage▪ stayed, earnest, settled, solid.
  • VANITY,
    • FORMALNESS, Coxcomb, fond, foppish.
    • LIGHTNESS, flashy, Freak, Levity, Petulance.

Our Outward carriage towards others

Our Outward carriage towards others, both Actions and Speeches, as to a Facility for Converse, together with our desires and endea∣vours by all honest wayes to please others, and care, not to offend them.

  • COURTESY, Comity, mannerliness, civility, affability, kindness, hu∣manity, gentle, fair, humane, benign, tractable, smooth.
    • FAWNING, Assentation, Adulation, obsequious, smooth, glavering, gloze, cogg, cajole, curry favour, collogue, wheedle, crouch, creep∣ing, scraping, flatter, sooth, clawing, Blandishment, Parasite, Sy∣cophant, Claw-back.
    • MOROSENESS, curst, crabbed, cynical, froward, churlish, uncivil, boisterous, rude, sullen, surly, unmannerly, hard to please, humor∣some, rough, harsh, sour, testy, snappish, dogged, currish, waspish, tetchy, wayward, peevish, pettish.

Our Words and Speeches; either in

More serious

More serious debates; making due allowances to others, affording them just liberty.

  • COMPLACENCY, Civility, smooth, soft, popular,
    • ASSENTATION, Flattery, glozing, soothing, fawning, mealy-mouth'd, trencher-friend.
    • MAGISTERIALNESS, Arrogance, Imperiousness, Lordliness, masterly, pedantical, rough, over-bear, Roister.
less serious

Less serious matters; by such honest mirth whereby Conversation is to be sweetned.

  • URBANITY, Facetiousness, Raillery, Drollery, jocular, jocund, merry, Conceit, Iest, Squib, Clinch, Quibble, Wagg.
    • SCVRRILITY, Buffoonry, Abusiveness, Pasquil, Zany, Vice.
    • RVSTICITY, Clownishness, boisterous, blunt, barbarous, rough, rude, Kerne, home-bred, Slouch, uncivil, unmannerly, dirty.

HOMILETICAL VERTUES whereby we are to regulate our Demeanour towards our SUPERIOURS, may be distinguished into such as are

More general; denoting the Habit of behaving our selves as we ought towards all in a superiour relation.

  • DUTIFULNESS, submissive.
  • VNDVTIFVLNESS, Sturdiness, stiff, untoward, untractable.

SUBJECT

Subjecti; as Inferiours, and at a distance from them.

  • HUMILITY, Lowliness, abase, humble, gentle, submission, demisness.
  • PRIDE, Haughtiness, Loftiness, high-minded, Lordly, elate, stately, perk, self-conceit, arrogance, magisterialness, presumption, overween, puff up, look big.

OBJECT

PLACE
  • REVERENCE, Honour, regard, respect, veneration, awe, dread, Worship.
  • IRREVERENCE, Petulance, Sauciness, malapert, perk, presumptuous.
GIFT
  • RESPECT, Grace, Honour, deference, civility, esteem, observe, veil to.
  • DISREPECT, Dishonour, neglect, slighting, undervaluing, dis∣regard, vilifie.
AUTHORITY

General.

  • SUBJECTION, Homage, Loyalty, Allegiance, at ones command, serve under.
  • REBELLION.

Special; as

  • Governing.
    • LOYALTY, Allegiance, Fealty, Homage.
    • TREACHERY, betray, Traitor, disloyal.
  • Commanding.
    • OBEDIENCE, obsequious, observant, pliable, submissive, tra∣ctable, towardly, Conformity, follow, serve, be subject to.
    • DISOBEDIENCE, Contumacy, Obstinacy, refractory, self-willed, unruly, untoward, transgress, trespass, break, violate, take head, stiff-necked, wilful, masterless, restive.
  • Punishing; submitting to Justice, and suing for Mercy, or contr•.
    • SUBMISSION, give place to, give way, yield, resign, surren∣der, at discretion of.
    • CONTVMACY, Obstinacy, Self-will, stubborn, sullen, stiff, un∣tractable, wayward, stout, stiff-necked, refractory.

More general.

  • GRACIOUSNESS, Favour, Indulgence, gentle, kind, mild, serene, soft, benign, propitious.
  • HARSHNESS, Ruggedness, sourness, roughness.

Subject

Subjecti; in respect of our Superiority, from which we are ready upon occasion to yield and stoop down.

  • CONDESCENSION, deign, vouchsafe, bear with, suffer.
  • INSOLENCE, Magisterialness, imperiousness, roughness, strictness, stately, domineer, insult, swagger, Roister, Ruffian.

Object

Objecti; as to Inferiors, in

place or gifts
  • AFFABILITY, Courtesie, gentleness, facil, fair, demeanour.
  • SVPERCILIOVSNESS, roughness, stern, sour, scornful, stately, surly, arrogant.
Authority; in

General; preserving such in their just rights, or invading of them.

  • PROTECTION, Shelter, defence, guard, patronage, refuge.
  • TYRANNY.

Special; as

  • Governing.
    • GOOD GOVERNANCE, Discipline, Regiment.
    • MALE-ADMINISTRATION, misgoverning, ill governance.
  • Commanding.
    • REASONABLENESS.
    • VNREASONABLENESS.
  • Punishing when one ought.
    • SEVERITY, strict.
    • FONDNESS, Indulgence, cocker, do•e, make much of, tender, chary.
  • Remitting, when there is just occasion.
    • CLEMENCY, Gentleness, favourableness, lenity, mildness.
    • AVSTERITY, stern, strict, inflexible, asperity, rigor, stiff, ri∣gid, harsh, sharp, tart, rough, crabbed.
  • conversation
    • external conversations
      • speaker + listener
        • conversation about qualities of an object or person
          • praise , appreciate , recommend
        • Conversation about actions
          • speaker being a commander , listener being a doer
            • command , instruct
          • speaker being a requester , listener being a doer
          • listener doubtfully being responsible for action by speaker
            • accuse , charge , blame
            • defend
          • speaker being responsible by himself
            • admit , confess , accept
    • Internal conversations
      • speaker + listener
        • speaker is either being
          • faithful
          • infidelity , cheat
        • listener assuming it either to be
          • truth
          • false
  • Communication
    • general name
      • converse , chat , communicate , talk , chit-chat
        • agree , concur
        • disagree , dispute , debate , argue
    • human communication
      • Reply , answer
      • interrogation
        • ask , question , inquire
    • mass communication
      • announce , broadcast
ENGLISH MANTRAKSHAR
disagree
debate
argue
dispute
ENGLISH MANTRAKSHAR
converse
chat
communicate
talk
agree
ENGLISH MANTRAKSHAR
announce voice vibration around
broadcast
ENGLISH MANTRAKSHAR
answer open box with question in mouth
inquire
ask closed box with question in mouth
question open box with question
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